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I love doing therapy with family members of addicts. These are my people.

Family addiction counseling is not new to me. I worked as a drug and alcohol counselor for over 5 years. During that time, I ran the family program once a week while also doing group therapy for the addicts and alcoholics in the program.  Many family members came to our family nights hungry for information. Looking for understanding. Craving compassion. Seeking validation. And, to just have a place to vent their frustration at the devastation brought on by the addict or alcoholic in their life.
 
Then, when the person finished treatment, the family was left with nowhere to turn. They often thought things would get back to “normal.”  Often, the family members put a lot of stress and pressure on the newly sober person. Pressure to get a job, make amends, and put this whole addiction thing behind them.

Family Addiction Counseling is the Next Step After Addiction Treatment

When the addict finishes treatment successfully, I call that a good start.  This can be pretty bad news to a family member who has endured years of various kinds of abuse by their loved one.  And the idea that the wife or brother needs some help of their own. Well, the addiction isn’t THEIR problem, so why do they need help?

Why should a family member of an addict get therapy?

Think about it this way:  It’s as if your son, wife, husband, or whoever the addict is in your life, they ran you over with a truck.  And they got out, came over to you, and asked what they could do, and you said “I need you to fix my leg!”  That’s not realistic. The driver of the truck isn’t a doctor. And, doesn’t have the tools to repair the damage they did.  They express remorse, they want to help, but they’re not qualified to fix your leg, even though they broke it.

Family members of addicts and alcoholics often expect the addict to fix their broken leg.

That’s where I come in. In family addiction counseling, I meet with family members who still have an active addict in their lives. Then, help them to find out what is their comfort level of support and commitment to the addict. Of course, I do not tell people to do or not do something that they’re not comfortable with.  I also work with family members of people who have recently returned from an inpatient stay or are beginning their recovery.  These family members are sometimes confused about what to say and do with their “new”, sober family member.  They also sometimes want to know, need to know, how the family member is doing. Without the constant support of the drug counselor now that they’ve returned from treatment.

Family addiction counseling actually works. Why not give it a try?

I help family members educate themselves on the ongoing process of recovery. Then, enable them to access recovery for themselves. And, finally, help them make the decisions necessary for their lives to return to them.

You don’t need to do this alone. Help is available.

Begin Family Addiction Counseling in Mountainside, NJ

Starting counseling for family members of addicts from my New Jersey mental health clinic is simple. You don’t have to live with conflict in your family forever. When you’re ready to begin, follow these steps:

  1. Click here to schedule your first appointment.
  2. Meet with a trained family therapist in New Jersey who gets it.
  3. Get your family’s relationship back on track with the right tools for coping, communication, and connection

 

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Other Therapy Services in Mountainside, NJ

Here in Mountainside, NJ, we know that you are not a one-dimensional human. That’s why we treat your mental health needs in a comprehensive, individualized way. In addition to online counseling, we provide a range of mindfulness-based therapy services for individuals and couples. This includes therapy for young adults, premarital counseling, discernment counseling, and therapy for couples in recovery. One of our specialties is serving individuals recovering from addiction and the family members and loved ones who are supporting them. We also have a blog, regularly updated with relevant information for your life. We look forward to meeting you, soon.