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3 Popular Marriage Counseling Techniques

2019-12-04T18:25:22+00:00

For many people, going to couples’ therapy and realizing its benefits firsthand is satisfying enough. Others, however, are interested in learning the why behind counseling, including why and how certain [...]

3 Popular Marriage Counseling Techniques2019-12-04T18:25:22+00:00

Here’s a crazy idea-how about talking to each other as a way to get started.

2019-03-29T17:48:18+00:00

In my work with couples a lot of people ask questions like “How can you do that kind of work?-sitting there while couples yell at each other, I couldn’t take [...]

Here’s a crazy idea-how about talking to each other as a way to get started.2019-03-29T17:48:18+00:00

You Don’t Have To Solve Your Problems.

2019-03-29T17:50:32+00:00

Research shows that almost 2/3 of marital issues are unsolvable. At the Gottman Institute We call these perpetual problems. Psychologist Dan Wile says, "When choosing a long-term partner, you will [...]

You Don’t Have To Solve Your Problems.2019-03-29T17:50:32+00:00

Contempt: Gottman’s Four Horsemen Article

2019-03-29T17:53:58+00:00

Contempt: Contempt is the most detrimental of the four horsemen to a relationship.  In Gottman language we talk about “negative sentiment override”, which means that there is a time when [...]

Contempt: Gottman’s Four Horsemen Article2019-03-29T17:53:58+00:00